Just as the title says, I’m trying to figure out if I’m overreacting or not.

edit: Okay, maybe it’s nothing do with her being a hinge and everything to do with just our relationship having issues.

My wife and I opened our relationship about 6 months ago and she found someone really quickly, but I haven’t been able to find anyone yet. In the beginning I thought that it did bring my wife and I closer together, despite me being lonely when she left to see him. Over the last few months, however, I’ve felt her moving away from me emotionally and physically to the point where we haven’t been physically intimate in 2 months but still seeing him on their regular 2-3 week schedule. The last few times we did have sex she didn’t seem present. I know that me saying she wasn’t ‘present’ may seem subjective looking back, but I thought that after we had finished while I still thought everything was okay.

I have spoken with her about trying to get closer and trying to start dating again, but she turned me down stating “I like the life that we have and I don’t have the energy to have start dating again.”

I tried to keep it short, so if you require anymore info, please ask.