Not sure what to do. After a conflict where bfs wife disclosed she doesn't want to live with me because she doesn't trust me or my bf because she believes I'm trying to steal him away.... which no I was excited to move in with everyone and have our family. She has a bf who she doesn't want to be poly and also doesn't want mine to be either. I was told to stay in my lane and not get pregnant by her husband which I got on birth control I am not a fan of the fact she thinks of me as less than and is definitely going for hierarchy. We were literally supposed to get the new apartment this Friday. She wants everything and when she isn't getting her way it makes everyone's lives a mess. Blaming me for her relationship problems is where I'm baffled because they've had them before and will have them after. I don't believe that if I broke up with my boyfriend it would change anything with them and the next relationship probably won't take her shit as much as I have especially the passive aggressive posting on social media to where I can see. How would you go about getting a solution to this because even her boyfriend isn't feeling secure in their relationship