So let's say you break up with one of your partners, how do you deal with it without alienating the other partners that still want to be in your life? I explain myself worse🤣.. usually if I go through a breakup I am feeling down, not wanting to connect since I have just been burned, I tend to turn down interactions and prefer superficial ones because it's easier to not think about losing a person that at least for some time was part of my life. I also might be resentful, feeling miserable and depressed. I think in mono relationship you break up and take time to heal, people around you will give you the space that you need and not require you to be there for them, and I mean I know that part of any relationship is respecting whatever the other person is feeling but what if by being down for the break up I affect the connections with other partners? I had some partners in the past complain that they felt bad for having to deal with my bad mood if I had a difficult discussion with another partner because obviously that affects them too, I might not want to deal with anybody and be emotionally unavailable for the time I need to recenter, and I can guess with a break up it would be even worse. So how do you people deal with that with your other partners?