My (28f) solo-polyamorous friend (27f) introduced me to her new fuck buddy (38m) earlier this year. Since then, he and I hung out and slept together a few times while his and my friend's relationship intensified. They were seeing each other quite a lot as Daddy Dom and Sub.

At the same time, I've fallen away from my friend. For a couple months there, I kept trying to make plans to catch up with her and always got cancelled on. I'd given up and resolved that if she wanted to see me she would - she hangs out with plenty of other people and posts about it on social media. Since giving up, I haven't heard from her at all.

Two months ago his and her relationship seriously broke down, which I know because she posted about her heartbreak and grief on social media. I messaged her to check in back then, but received no response. Up until now she has continued to make posts about how hurt she is.

I'm currently overseas, but had made plans to see him again when I returned. If I still felt connected to my friend, I would talk to her about it and not see him again if it would hurt her. In this case ... I don't know. If you were in my position, would you stop seeing him anyway?