So I'm probably the worst example of a demisexual individual ever. I'm okay with hookups if I don't intend to speak to you again but if I like you I want to take it slow. To be perfectly honest looking through this Reddit is making me feel a little disheartened about getting to meet other polyamorous people. I hate that unicorn hunters have pretty much saturated any public space for polyamorous people. And now so many people are hostile towards polyamorous people because they think we're like those unethical people. Honestly it almost sometimes makes me question if I should just give up the title of polyamory because the stigma that comes with it. However I can't, it's who I am. I want to date someone who makes me feel supported whenever I catch feelings for someone. I want someone who is comfortable talking to me about people they're interested in. I want a best friend that we're allowed to develop our relationship and whatever way feels natural between us rather than trying to fit in to some pre-written roles that society forces us to take on. But enough with the ranting, thank you for making it this far.
About me: I'm currently in Tennessee but in 5 months I will be building my nomadic rig and be traveling all across the states. I think it'd be nice to know people in different areas. Maybe make friends to hang out with or just someone to chat with online. I love getting to know someone new and learning about them. By listening to others I found that I can better understand myself. I have been told that I look younger until I start to speak. My favorite so far was a person I was talking to for a little bit suddenly squints and asks, "how old are you? You look like you're my age (25) But you talk like someone way older".... If you feel like chit-chatting I'm definitely open to it. That being said I definitely don't want to do any online relationships because They have a tendency to burn bright and then burn out very quick. I like to get to know somebody, then get to meet and keep them around in my life for a long time. If we become more than friends we will cross that bridge when we get there. Most important thing to me is honesty and empathy. I'm sure I could probably describe myself more but let's get to know each other.
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