The bad pun came from a friend, I can't take credit for that. If you're a Mass Effect fan like me, happy N7 Day, at least the day I wrote this post. If you're not, please at least give the trilogy a shot; after Dragon Age, it's one of my favorite game series of all time**. If you're not into gentle kink, collaring as a sign of commitment and historical clothing/cosplay in general, we're not a good fit for each other.*\*

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I'm polyamorous, but I prefer lasting relationships to hookups. I don't have the emotional bandwidth for it. I'm trying to get any potential dealbreakers out of the way in one go. I like to start on Reddit, but move to Discord if both of us feel a connection. Gentleness, honesty and open communication are paramount to me. I'm looking for someone between the ages of 23-36. I do have PTSD, so it will take me awhile to warm up. Kink is very important to me; I am into collaring and pet play. Giving and receiving pain of any kind is a hard limit.

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Ideally, I'm looking for a lifetime partnership, someone who wouldn't mind helping me cook historical and/or vegan food for dinner and then watching House of the Dragon on the couch. Someone who would treat my dog like their own. Someone who sends me memes, spends quality time with me and is very patient. Someone who wouldn't mind coming home to a 4'11 brunette with a passion for history, psychology and a sword collection. I'm dysfunctional, damaged goods, but I am actively working on myself every single day; I'm in therapy and not ashamed to admit that.

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Here's a list of stuff that makes me smile, in no particular order--

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Pokemon

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Dragon Age and Mass Effect

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Animal Crossing

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A good Dungeons and Dragons session

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Starbucks

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Historical/geeky cookbooks

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Sword replicas, lightsabers included

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You, hopefully. I have a preference for tall, skinny guys/girls but I'm flexible!