Hey there, as the post above states, I'm a 29 year old female. My boyfriend and I are looking for a third within our relationship. My boyfriend is 34 and we both love video games, anime, board games, and rock music (hence my reddit name).

We have both been in multiple polyamorous relationships and scenarios so we have an idea of what healthy poly and unhealthy poly looks like. That said, are we perfect? We're humans lol so no. There's plenty we still have to learn within the poly community but we always keep an open mind and a positive outlook on life. Or at least he's optimistic 🤣 we're sort of like Bolin and Eska from the legend of Korra except not as extreme in personality and we actually work lol.

We both balance each other out, which is why I think it's time to bring in a third. We've been together for a year, and though we both like similar hobbies, we still have some differences. I love going on walks, creating music on guitar and piano, and I love the spiritual side of life such as tarot reading, astrology, meditation, and yoga. My boyfriend loves to play anime based card games. The only one he sold me on is digimon but he loves UFS (specifically the My Hero Academia portion) and he's gone to regional and international tournaments in the past. He's played pokemon and yu-gi-oh as a card game as well. While I enjoy pokemon, he really knows the ins and outs of the video game series. He also loves painting minis and he is a D&D DM. We both appreciate each others artistry but in different ways. I create music and he creates great visual art and fantastic story telling. 😁 we also live with a graphic designer so all quirky artists are welcome in our home.

We also enjoy bdsm, but by no means don't let this deter you, bdsm is not necessary in our bedroom. An honest and kind heart is the only requirement if we invited you into our home beyond the livingroom. But if you find yourself enjoying the kink side of the world, we can always discuss boundaries, consent, safe spaces, dynamics, and more. Feel free to message me if you have any further questions. We are only seeking a female between the ages of 26 - 36 and we would suggest going on multiple dates just so she can know us as a couple and on an individual level as well. We are always open to conversations around concern or suggestion in case there needs to be any changes or modifications as the dynamic and the thruple grows.

Overrall, I've been in thruples before and I feel like I function best in a thruple. Feel free to message me to find out why. We appreciate that you took the time to read this and feel free to ask us any questions 🥰

Edit: typos