Hello! I am in a married ENM relationship (we share this reddit account). My nesting partner (31F) and I have been exploring poly more. We have done NSA but am now on the hunt for more meaningful, longer-term connections.
She is not currently looking anymore as she has found connections she's exploring, but she is potentially open to playing depending on the situation/dynamic.
About me:
31 M, ENM - Polyam, Switch, Demisexual & Heteroflexible.
5'7, 175lbs, brown hair and green eyes, and a short beard.
I live in the Twin Cities area, so bonus points if you do, too!
Introverted extrovert
Intelligent, creative, respectful, empathetic, compassionate, nerdy, and kindhearted
Leftist/progressive, BLM, & Pro-choice
Informed Consent- Ones bodily autonomy is inviolable, subject to their will alone.
420 Friendly
Vaxxedx3 & DDF-have docs and hope you do too!
Hobbies include: music (currently listening to various forms of classic and extreme metal music, alt/outlaw/classic country, punk/hardcore, and dungeon synth); outdoors/nature; hiking/backpacking; canoeing; travel; metalworking/crafting; reading; audiobooks; podcasts; nerdy stuff (I have a dog named Gimli if that gives you an idea); cooking and trying new foods!
What am I seeking:
Long-term connections - friends first but would love to see where this could go! Ideally solo connections but also open to joining couples as well. I can be FWB friendly if that's where this starts.
My ideal partner would be someone who wants to communicate a lot throughout the day, who can carry a conversation, and someone who enjoys asking questions. I enjoy long, introspective conversations as well as puns and off the cuff riffing comedic exchanges. I would also be interested in meeting sooner than later once you are ready - chatting virtually is nice but there's nothing like seeing the genuine spark in someone's eyes as they talk about something they are passionate about.
Lastly:
If you know me in real life and you see this post, no you did not.
Conservatives, Qultists, & Antivaxxers can skip on by. this is a hard boundary and is non-negotiable.
I have no interest in financially supporting someone, sending money, or paying for your OF page.
I have pictures I'm willing to share, but only if we both are sharing.
If you're still here and are interested in chatting more, feel free to send me a DM.
Hope to hear from you soon :) Have a wonderful day!
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