Hello!

I'm looking for more serious connections in the Pacific Northwest, mainly near Portland.

For some basic description stuff:

I am a 30 y/o AMAB enby, I use they/them pronouns. White, average height, beard, long hair, tats, pierced, chubby.

I have been non-monogamous for 7 years, partnered for 6 and living with said partner for 5. We practice kitchen table, they have met most of the other people I have dated.

I'm not into casual things at the moment and would like people into real substantial dynamics. More into people that describe themselves as femme, trans, and enby over cismen. Mostly into people near me, I should just make a OkC, but wanted a change. Still into talking with further away folx.

I test regularly, you should to.

Also still taking COVID seriously, so would ask for people still masking at stores or in crowds, vaccinated and boosted, and making conscious efforts for their own health. I have a neuromuscular disability and I would like to not get COVID again 🙃 (also I use a cane sometimes, don't be an ableist prick)

Actually fun facts about me and not all the logical stuff:

• into kink, switch, mostly a top or Dom. Into either tops or bottoms. Experience in age play and petplay as Big/giver/master/handler. Ask away please.
• fan of surrealist art, absurdist philosophy, the idea of being fae, cosmic and existential horrors, and the queer magic that is statistics.
• I've been called ethereal by people for years, take that for what you will
• Singer, heathen, guitarist, filthy music theory and guitar pedal nerd
• generally a nerd
• generally down for tabletop, multiplayer couch co-op, EDH, talking in the dead of night stoned out of our gourds about precious things, or scraping the secrets from the roof of your mouth with my tongue.
• will send you memes, premium cursed content, weird YouTube videos, compliments*, MySpace Era emoticons such as :3, wild homesteading ideas, or "tasteful" hentai
• work in data, psychology, systems, social justice, and social media

Pros:

• In therapy

Cons:

• I'm a bit extra

So yeah, DM me if you like

*possibly too many compliments, I might like giving praise >.> also can slow my roll on request