About Me: 41 year old, Genderfluid, Demisexual Gamer-Geek who abhors gamer gate and unicorn hunting. Pansexual, Feminist Dominant who abhors toxic masculinity, TERFs, and SWERFs. Metaphorically woke as fuck, but I abhor my non-metaphorical alarm clock. Eternally gender baffled Hobbit; that sound you hear is multiple egg shells breaking only to reveal different eggs. Pronouns are They/He. Adjectives are Tired/Confused.

I'm Autistic and proud. I’m ADHD and what were we talking about? I survive most human interactions by the strategic use of coffee and humor as a defense mechanism. I classify myself as an ambivert. I would classify myself as a Hufflepuff if Rowling wasn't a ball sack full of burnt hair and spite. My birth classifies me as a Capricorn Sun, Cancer Rising, Scorpio Ascendant and I actually know what that means.

Kinkier than a cheap garden hose wrapped around a pile of improperly stored Christmas tree lights. A like a lot of kinks, but my favorite is Hypnokink. I've taught classes on it, and I am hoping to teach more at conventions next year. However, I am also fond of Bondage, Impact, Teasing/Denial, and a lot of similar things. The whole list of what I can fun with is pretty long, to be honest.

I have a kid, aged 9. My kid's mother is not one of my partners, but we co-parent together with few issues. You will not need to be in my kid's life, so don't feel like it's something compulsory. It's something that can be discussed if we get close and I feel comfortable with it.

What I Am Looking For: Looking for a local to semi-local partner for cuddling, hypno-kinky shenanigans, friendly video game rivalries, general kinktastic play, video game co-op craziness, someone to come over for dinner, as well as someone who wants to work towards cornering the coffee bean market of Stardew Valley. Anywhere within two hours drive would work, but the closer the better; Berks County would be best of all!

I am generally more comfortable with femme or nonbinary presenting persons due to personal issues, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to someone who is more masc presenting; just realize it may take me longer to feel comfortable. One way or the other, I am demisexual so please realize I need time to build a rapport with you. How long that process takes depends upon the person.

Really, I'm looking for someone to spend time with, build a connection with, and have fun with....and all of that is in ways that are wholesomely vanilla and in ways that are debauchedly spicy. All my other partners (My polyamory is kitchen table, non-hierarchical) are across the country. I love them dearly while also needing more physical closeness. I am getting touched starved, feeling isolated, and it kinda sucks.

Looking forward to hearing from you! One way or the other, good luck to everyone else out there looking!