I'm 34 F and he is 32. Looking to invite more people into our relationship. Currently he is in prison. Bad choices led him there, but he is not a bad person. This is the only time he's been in. We're hoping he'll be out by December.

Right now, we would want to get to know people, hopefully they can also email him or talk on the phone.

Since him and I are new to this, I want to stress that whoever joins us will be just as important to us as we are to each other and if ever they feel otherwise or think something is off, I 100% want them to open up about it so that we can fix it. He is big on loving equally. He doesn't play favorites.

I'm not sure what else to add here. But when I get msgs I'll be happy to send pics and introduce myself better. I look forward to meeting new people ☺️

**pls do not reach out if you are prejudice against inmates. Prison is set up to target those in low income areas and once they have you it is set up to traumatize you continuously while you try to stay alive.

Inmates deserve to be treated like they are still human and not judged prior to getting to know them. If you cannot do that then you do not have the emotional intelligence that we would need you to have for this to be functional.

I'm happy to explain why he got arrested to those who are interested. If you have any unsolicited advice pertaining to him being in prison, keep it to yourself. If you wouldn't give the same advice to someone who is in the military, a truck driver, or any other reason that one partner wouldn't be physically present at the time you choose to open your relationship up like this. Someone living away from you could be a murderer and you'd never know, the rates of assault in the military are crazy high, and truck drivers could hide a whole other family from you despite having this arrangement. This means that if the person in prison is the only one you'd tell to wait, you're being prejudice because you're judging him based off a system that puts black ppl away for the most ridiculous things, women away for defending themselves against rapist, but doesn't give a rapist more than 3 yrs with at least 3 victims coming forward.

We need people who are mature and want people who'd like to see each other succeed. We want a team. Our ideal relationship is almost like a small community of people who want to be supportive towards one another. If that is also what you'd like in your life, please reach out to me.