Me : 32 cis man, partnered(married), and have been enm/polyam for ~1.5 years. Obvs a defacto hierarchy, but don't actively treat it that way.

Stats - 5'7 185 - not in super great shape, but also not super overweight. Maybe dad-bod light? Have been into a more active lifestyle recently though so that may change. Curly hair, beard, man-bun, and glasses(I need new ones though). Just got my first tattoo and I can feel the addiction manifesting.

Pro-science, not religious, nerdy, love pc gaming, anime, very open minded, always down to talk about feelings, 420 (I grow, also work in the industry, but not much of a user anymore tbh), fantasy/sifi audio books (I have the 5 books in 7 days audible badge lol), owner of two poodle boyos, love to cook, and always down to try new takeout. Also a big hockey fan, for me there is no off season, and I listen to podcasts year-round. Happy to discuss/watch other sports if you are into something else. Happy to try new things, so please tell me what you would love to do with me!

I generally speak my mind, and work at being a good communicator, I expect the same from a partner. I'm down to verify the situation with my partner if you need that confirmation.

Looking for :

Romantic relationship, preferably long term if things work out. Friends first is fine, looking for southern Ontario locals mostly (South of Barrie, as east as TO and as west as Waterloo), but longerish distance could be an option for the right person. I like more casual dates or hangouts, adventures are also fun, but sometimes so is grocery shopping. Partner and I date separate, but not ruling out anything if the fit (i.e. some sort of triad situation) is right as she is pan.

You: kind, attentive, nerdy, open minded, want to have fun, don't take yourself too seriously (except when needed ofc), okay with exploring a relationship with a married/partnered person.

Physically I don't have a type, and don't care if you are taller than me. Not to say I don't value physical attractiveness at all, I just find a lot of different looks attractive, especially when the personality lines up!

Hope you have a great day, don't be afraid to reach out! Happy to swap pics if interested.