Hi redditors!

Me : 31 cis man, married, and been enm for ~1.5 years. Obvs a defacto hierarchy, but we don't actively treat it that way.

Stats - 5'7 180 - not in super great shape, but also not super overweight. Maybe dad-bod light? I used to be super athletic and open to being more so again with the right person. I just need someone to do that stuff with. Curly hair, full beard, man-bun, and glasses. Tats are coming this year hopefully.

Pro-science, not religious, nerdy, love pc gaming, anime, very open minded, always down to talk about feelings, 420 (I grow and work in the industry), fantasy/ sifi audio books (I just earned the 5 books in 7 days audible badge lol), my aussiedoodle doggo, love to cook and always down to try new takeout. Financially stable and expect the same.

I generally speak my mind, and work at being a good communicator, I expect the same from a partner. I'm down to verify the situation with my partner if you need that confirmation.

Looking for :

Romantic relationship, preferably long term if things work out. Friends first is fine, but looking for in-person, not long distance (could change my mind for the right person). I like more casual dates and hangouts, adventures are fun, but sometimes so is grocery shopping. The lady and I date separate, but not ruling out anything if the fit is right (she is pan).

You: kind, attentive, nerdy, a weeb probably, open minded, want to have fun, don't take yourself too seriously (except when needed ofc), want to explore a relationship with a married/partnered person.

Physically I don't have a type, don't care if you are taller than me, or plus sized (as long as you are healthyish, that's all that matters). Not to say I don't value physical attractiveness at all, I just find a lot of different looks attractive, especially when the personality lines up!

Hope you have a great day, don't be afraid to reach out!