Interested in kink inside and outside of the bedroom? Someone who's emotionally open, and not just looking for sex? Then please read on...

I am a married, poly, 39 year old Australian dominant who’s looking for a poly submissive. I’m around 6’ and 170lb, am DDF, and have experience with dominance, pet play, and D/s relationships.

I find I gravitate towards a nurturing and compassionate style of dominance, ideally mixed with emotional connection. Should it be desired by my partner, I'm more than happy to incorporate my taste for sadism. I practice risk aware and consensual kink, and am careful not to break trust placed in me. My goal is to ensure that each person in the dynamic has a smile on their face :)

I believe in dominance inside and outside of the bedroom, and generally establish rules for my kink partners provided of course that it doesn't interfere with your other partner(s). I practice KTP with my wife, but date separately.

I do not smoke or drink, though I have dabbled with marijuana on a scarce occasion. I enjoy hiking, technology, movies, and computer games, and am of a slim build and average fitness. Cooking is something I like to do here and there, but I am no master of the art.

I'd prefer that you exhibit the following:

• The ability to communicate in all honesty with me. I'd like for us to build a strong foundation of trust. If something is bothering you, do not hesitate to inform me. I cannot read your mind, and I realize that the same can be said of you. Let's keep the lines of communication clear and open.
• Maturity and understanding. Willingness to learn as well as work with me, and exert an equal amount of time and effort towards the relationship. I prefer that both partners in a dynamic be a priority and not just an option.
• Hopefully you've a good sense of humor, too! I certainly can be irreverent with my own.

Outside of kink I would potentially like to do a variety of activities with you. After both of us are vaccinated and covid is over I’d like to go to events, cuddle, watch movies, go on dates, and discuss topics that come to mind. Perhaps we will discover new and wondrous things, or stick to what is comfortable and gratifying. I'm fairly open minded.

I’d like you to be a cis-female who is submissive leaning, ENM / poly, local to the Greater Seattle area or surrounds, mature minded and of average build. Please have some pictures on your profile, or be willing to share some privately. I have several pictures of me on my own profile.

I am not looking for casual hookups or NSA arrangements. FWB with a strong emphasis on friendship is a possibility, however I would prefer a genuine emotional and romantic connection in time.

I would be happy to offer further information through a more private chat, so please message me if you are interested or simply wish to make an inquiry.