Hey!! 💖 I’m a AFAB non binary person looking for friends and/or dates in the Greater Boston area. I’m bisexual and a sub.

About Me: I’m a designer currently working on ~future tech~ and love to chat about ethical implications of technology and how to approach interactive design from a more human and emotional place. I currently mentor folks trying to start their design, tech, or games career and love to design resumes. I hate playing the capitalist game but I’m very willing to help people learn the rules to get where they want to go. I make decent money and don’t necessarily need my partner to be financially well off but I’m not looking to 100% support someone financially (I also probably can’t afford it along with my other priorities 😅)

I am currently in a relationship with a nesting partner (we’re legally married, if that’s a concern), although we are not looking to date together. I tend to enjoy kitchen table relationships but my nesting partner is not really a fan.

I definitely prefer messaging over voice call, but do go on calls with friends when playing games. In my spare time, I love drawing, crafting, sewing, making games, and playing with my cats. I also game and picked up Pokémon Arceus recently!! I want to get back to going to the gym but admittedly hate exercising and need someone to keep me accountable. I’m a huge cuddler, love romantic gestures (both giving and receiving), and would love to do chill hangouts. I like to dress all along the masc-fem spectrum depending on my feelings on a certain day.

What I’m looking for: In terms of logistics, I’m looking to meet folks who are local. I’m COVID tested daily at work and I’m vaxxed booster, but I try to be safe and don’t go to crowded places indoors since I’m high risk. I drive and also live by public transportation.

Would love to meet folks from all different backgrounds who love to make things! I’m surrounded by engineers so do appreciate someone with creative thinking to balance that out haha. Would love it if we can game with each other (the ultimate test of a relationship is seeing if we can tolerate each other in League) or even separately but cuddled up with each other, even platonically. Preferably not a constant party person because I enjoy 1:1 or small group hangouts much better. Would heavily prefer you to host, at least to start off with, if we meet up in private.

For folks interested in possible dates, I do want to mention that I’m pretty kinky and I’m not looking for vanilla partners at the moment. I’m a sub and a bottom so unfortunately I’m not able to dominate you. Happy to chat more about kinks over DMs since I feel a bit awkward showing them off publically in this post.

I respond better to messages with at least one decent paragraph talking about you as a person! Happy to swap photos once we feel comfortable talking 💖