Stuff About Me

I'm a chill guy with long, green hair who does his best to be better than he was the day before. Which, it turns out, isn't difficult if you're not an ass. I take serious things seriously, but on the whole I'm pretty lighthearted and when anxiety permits, I like sharing that energy with others. I'm married and my wife and I date separately. We try to keep things as kitchen table as reality allows, which is usually plenty.

I'm a tired* nerd with a burning desire for conversation. I'm pretty direct when it's not completely tactless to be and I enjoy connecting with others over interests, shared or otherwise.

I'll do plenty of talking once I get to know you, but anxiety is real and it might make the first few moments a little quiet. Until then, I'll probably just show you pictures of my cats.

I'm a software developer for work and I'm always looking for personal projects to remind me that doing that can be fun.

*Probably depressed and definitely anxious, but you know.

Stuff about what I'm after

...That's up in the air at this point. I'd like to meet more people, obviously. In a perfect world, a romantic relationship or two wouldn't hurt. But I don't get into the latter category lightly so anything on that front would take some time. Basically, just say words at me if you want and we can go from there. If *you* have intentions it'd be cool if you spelled those out right away.

I'm back in the area after a long while and I'm also looking for things to do with people. Going out to bars, D&D or some other tabletop game, staring up at the ceiling because what is life and what am I doing with it, etc. The standard stuff.

If any of that caught your attention, send me a message! Preferably not in the chat system, but I'll respond either way.