I'm married and I have another partner -- we all date separately, so if you're looking for a group for romance, look elsewhere. If you're looking for a group to chill out with, keep reading.

Some Stuff About Me
I'm a nerd. But I tend to be pretty laid back about it; D&D, board games. I make music of various genres as the mood strikes and I'm pretty decent at it if inspiration strikes; though that's all electronic, so in terms of actual training.... kind of piano/keyboard? Oh well. The end result tends to speak for itself and I have fun. I break mess with 3D printers and small electronics. Basically, if it's fun and I have a reason try something, chances are I'll give it a go.

My hair is long, green and third adjective. I look like a guy who might do computer science stuff, and does. But, I mean, I make half an effort not to look like I live under a rock.

Kink friendly; talking about the finer points of X/Y/Z and talking about experiences is a lot of fun in the right context.

I have a number of cats between one and 13, and the answer will surprise you.

Depression, anxiety and I get along. Or, don't. I don't know how they want to define their relationship with me. I just know they exist.

What am I here for?
(seriously, someone tell me.)

You know that meme that's been circulating about poly just being an excuse to get a D&D campaign going? That should be true, but so far it hasn't quite panned out. I want to try to fix that, and maybe be social in general. I need more friends.

I'm always open to the idea of gelling with someone well enough that we start dating and see where things go, but I'm not actively trying to make that happen at the moment. ...Does anyone ever 'actively,' try with that stuff? Oh well. You know what I mean.

TL,DR: Friends, but if something else happens I guess it will happen.

IF any of this is resonating, send me a message! I kind of hate the chat functionality here and tend to use Discord to get to know people. The kicker is that I tend to take at least some time to respond to messages unless I'm just being stupid for fun and making puns. Or trying.

Pictures or really, whatever information upon request. I do have pictures of the cats....