Hello. My family and I have been stable and driven for awhile now and have agreed that should a kindred soul come along, we'd be open to adding to our family.
After a discussion about this, it was established that we would be open to someone who is single or to multiple someone(s) who aren't. This means that for the right couple or poly dynamic, we would consider the possibility.
We have an established dynamic that has been in place for just over 5 years, and are in no rush to do anything to alter it without knowing what we're getting into.
We have stability, jobs, steady residence, family game nights, little to no jealousy issues, are drug/ disease free, an accepting disposition, and just like with any relationship we have group goals and are driven to meet them.
I am the head of our family and would be trusted to screen people interested.
If you enjoy gossip and she-said-he-said type drama, please don't waste our time as I can assure you that it won't last with someone like that. We communicate too well and are too open for it to not be obvious.
Race, orientation of any kind, marriage/ child status, and prior experience in a dynamic are not factors.
A relationship would not have to be sexual with all or even any members in order to be family in the right situation.
Attitude, personality, intent, willingness, and ethics are factors.
Age and location can be factors.
If youre significantly older than us then I'm not going to tell you no based on just that, but know that if you're at an entirely different part of your life than we are then that may not work.
If you aren't nearby or don't have a plan to become nearby if things go well within a year or so, then that isn't going to work. Communication is everything and there's too much room for misinterpretation in long distance. This isnt negotiable. Time to move is one thing. No intent to be physically part of this family is another.
I wouldn't ask someone to move right off the bat, there would be time taken to take trips and visit and get to know each other. What I'm saying, however, is if you know that you have something tying you to where you are for more than a year not including material concerns then we may not be your best fit. It's 2018. Almost no one has the resources to just up and move. For the right person in the right circumstance, we'd consider assisting with that as we are able.
Take time to think things through, as with any decision that you decide to inquire upon.
If you are a poly family of 3 or more already and just want to network, you may message me saying so and that would also be acceptable.
Please also make your subject the age(s) and gender(s) of whomever you're messaging on behalf of and your current state/ country. Thank you!
We look forward to hearing from you :)
Would love to chat. If youโre still interested let us know :)
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