Hi! I’m a 27F living in the Bay Area. I have a long distance male partner, but I’m looking for a woman or nb nearby to do fun and cute things with. Open to chatting with people long distance but I’m not really seeking another LDR.

I work for a healthcare company doing community outreach so most of my workdays are spent talking to unhoused folks or other people who are going through hard times or are significantly system impacted. Public health and social justice are important to me, and I don’t feel that I click well with people who don’t care about politics or progress. I guess this is my work paragraph so I also work at a brewery on the weekends lol, so that means free beer for you!

In my free time, I love sewing, going on walks/hikes, watching soccer, visiting breweries, thrifting, watching Drag Race and comedic shows, and just exploring the places around me. I read a bit but I recently got a switch so they compete for priority. Although I grew up in the Bay, I lived in Scotland for four years and Mexico for one, so I’m trying to get to know the Bay Area more again. I’m in the East Bay, but I’ve been wanting to spend more time in SF lately. I also want to go to more concerts. One thing that I want to be honest about is that I often struggle (but am actively working on improving) with emotional intimacy and vulnerability. I have to go slow with things like that and I’m starting to get better at stating my boundaries and desires (yay therapy!).

Looks: I’m femme but not super girly. I’m white and I have long blonde hair, and I’m always wearing mascara but that’s about it for makeup. I’m 5’3, curvy but not plus size, and I’ve been told that I look like the hawk tuah girl (we just both have big front teeth lol). Don’t mind sending pics early on, I think that looks matter in attraction to a certain degree.

Other random things: 420 friendly, vegan, can be a bit shy at first but loud and annoying once i’m comfy around you, I’ve been thinking about getting a reptile, sarcastic and often dry humor, been told by nonwhite friends and clients that I’m not bad for a white girl (I know there are levels and layers to this and I’m always actively trying to change my ways of thinking and acting that are rooted in colonial, racist, capitalist, or other privileged biases)

You: nice to me 🥹, close to my age, live in the bay, passionate about something, active, patient, open minded, care about equity and justice, will make me laugh