Me : 34 man, partnered x 1, nested, and have been practicing polyamorous for ~4 years.
Physical Stuff - 5'7 160 – I’m not in super great shape, but also not unhealthy. I lost like 40lbs last year, so that's cool. I have long curly hair, brown/green eyes, beard, man-bun, and glasses. Only one tattoo, but will be getting another (or two) this year.
More stuff:
- Pro-science.
- Not religious.
- Nerdy, love pc gaming, anime, fantasy/sifi audio books (I have the 5 books in 7 days audible badge lol).
- Very open minded.
- Always down to talk about feelings.
- 420 friendly (I grow, but not much of a user anymore, wanna try my newest harvest? :) ).
- Owner(slave) of two poodle boyos.
- Love to cook, and always down to try new takeout.
- Touchy feely type of person.
- Big hockey fan, for me there is no off season. I’m happy to discuss/watch other sports if you are into something else.
- Always glad to try new things, and explore your passions, so please tell me what you would love to do with me!
- I generally speak my mind, and work at being a good communicator; I expect the same from a partner. I'm down to verify the situation with my partner if you need that confirmation.
Looking for :
- LDRs are welcome, but you need to realize that means lots of communication, if you don't want to text and call a decent amount, why even bother having a ldr.
- Becoming friends first and taking things slowly is fine, but ultimately looking for a romantic relationship/connection, preferably long term if things work out.
- I am a very affectionate and attentive person; I love to spoil in that way. Looking for southern Ontario locals mostly (I live 1h-45m north of the gta), but longerish distance could be an option for the right person(I do have my passport, American friends).
- Online is doable for the right person, but there needs to be an in person component, I value a physical presence. Even if its not super often.
- I like more casual/free flowing dates or hangouts, adventures are also fun, but sometimes so is grocery shopping. Not to say I don't like planning, but not all the time.
- Partner and I date separate, can’t host, but we can get creative. I don’t go to the city much, so if you want to bring me to your favorite spots or explore, I’m totally down
You:
- Kind.
- Attentive.
- Excellent communicator.
- Emotionally available, and have done the requisite emotional work.
- Nerdy, or passionate about your hobbies, I love creative/artsy folks.
- Open minded.
- Don't take yourself too seriously (except when needed ofc).
- Okay with exploring a relationship with a partnered/nested person.
- Age wise probably 26 , but mostly just have your shit together (somewhat, we all have our stuff).
Physically I don't have a type, just want a healthy human who I can care for for a long time, also don't care if you are taller than me. Not to say I don't value physical attractiveness at all, I just find a lot of different looks attractive, especially when the personality lines up!
Hope you have a great day, don't be afraid to reach out (chat or dm)! I’m happy to swap pics if you’re interested.
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