TL;DR:
We’re a Christ-centered couple living in the rural Appalachian foothills. One partner is 47 (INFP man; though he carries the vitality and appearance of someone in their mid-to-late 30s; strong genetics) and the other is 35 (INTJ woman with clear structure and vision). Our life blends tech ventures with sustainable farming and thoughtful, reflective communication. We’re seeking a sincere, faith-driven woman—someone who resonates with introspection, empathy, and authenticity (qualities often seen in INFJ/ENFJ/ISFJ/ISFP types)—to join our covenant-based triad.
Hello and Welcome,
We're a devoted Christian couple who have turned personal challenges into a life of resilience, authenticity, and shared purpose. Our home in the scenic hills of Appalachia reflects a harmonious blend of modern technology and sustainable farming. Our daily lives are enriched by creative collaboration, reflective dialogue (often expressed in detailed written communication), and a genuine commitment to our spiritual walk with Christ towards being an eternal family. We want to find a choice daughter of God to join us!
About Us:
- Our Faith & Values:
We live out our Christian faith through prayer, Scripture, and honest reflection—striving to nurture both spiritual growth and deep family bonds. We also like to have fun, are lighthearted and try not to be too serious all the time! We're a bit socially awkward, but genuine and full of love. - Our Communication & Lifestyle:
Thoughtful, reflective dialogue is our foundation. We value clear, measured exchanges (often in writing, but we also love to talk) to process life’s complexities. Our lifestyle is a blend of tech-driven ventures and sustainable living, ensuring both creative innovation and practical self-sufficiency. - Our Heritage:
Proud of our Irish, Scottish, and German European roots - enriched by our distant Native American ancestors, we believe that shared cultural traditions deepen connection and foster lasting harmony. I also speak Spanish fluently, but am not Hispanic. We're also open to Japanese culture, but are cautious about some other cultures due to some past experiences. Happy to clarify if you're interested.
Who We’re Looking For:
We are seeking a sincere, faith-driven woman who:
- Embraces a covenant-based view of relationships and is open to joining a plural (triad) dynamic built on mutual respect, love, and clear communication.
- Age range of twenties would be ideal, but 18-35 would be good. After a long honeymoon of at least a year so we can get to know each other well, we would be open to having more children grace our family.
- Height: if you like taller or same height men, you'll want to be 5'8" or shorter, but don't worry if you aren't bothered by height! We aren't either. If you're a taller we'll still love you if you love us! We have family that is over 6', so it's in our genes even if we're not quite as tall. 😆
- You should enjoy/love nature since you'll be living in a beautiful location with forests, creeks, rivers, lakes and rich nature, but also it would be nice if you appreciated technology due to our work.
- Perhaps you would like to garden? Do you like pets, dogs, chickens, cats, fish, lizards, cattle, pigs, and more? That'd be great too!
- Appreciate walks through the woods or in the fields and up the hills to view beautiful vistas? You'll feel at home!
- Values deep introspection, empathy, and authentic emotional expression—qualities that resonate with personality types like INFJ, ENFJ, ISFJ, or ISFP.
- Enjoys thoughtful, reflective conversation (whether written or verbal) as a foundation for connection and growth.
- Is comfortable with a lifestyle that combines modern tech ventures, sustainable living, and collaborative family endeavors. Enjoying gaming and music is a bonus; we have very diverse interests both intellectually and with entertainment. We like both Celtic, Trance/EDM, Dark-Gothic, Happy, Synth, Hymns, and so much more.
- We are Christian and believe in Christian values, but we also believe that we should be able to share the same bed so as to never leave anyone out of love and companionship. Togetherness is important to us and as a man, I believe that my wives' needs come first (😊) and I seek to bring both joy and pleasure in the most important and even trivial ways possible. Your joy is my joy; your peace is my peace; my life is your life. We try to live so as to seek to be friends of the Savior and with one another at all times.
- You can be from anywhere. We'll help you move.
- Shares our commitment to personal growth, resilience, and building a future that honors both our spiritual calling and our family legacy.
Our Commitment to You:
- A Loving, Supportive Home: We offer a stable, nurturing environment where every member is valued and open, honest communication is our cornerstone.
- Transparency & Respect: We’re committed to sharing our journey—our challenges and our hopes—to build deep, meaningful connections that will last beyond life.
- A Thoughtful Transition: If you feel called to join us, we will support your integration into our family with care, ensuring our path together begins with mutual understanding and respect.
How to Proceed:
If our vision resonates with you and you’re inspired to explore a Christ-centered, introspective, and culturally aligned triad, please send a direct message, chat or leave a comment. We look forward to engaging in a respectful, thoughtful conversation to see if our paths are meant to converge.
Thanks for considering our invitation. We eagerly await connecting with a kindred spirit who embodies warmth, empathy, and thoughtful authenticity.
In Christ,
A Devoted Couple
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