Hi there 👋🏻 and thanks for reading! I’m Ben and I’m looking to connect with someone. I’ve always wanted to have a woman in my life as I’m Bi and I’m at the point where that’s feasible so I figured I’d put myself out there and see where things lead!

A Bit About Me:

I’m a kind-hearted, nerdy, and introspective person who loves deep conversations, cozy vibes, and exploring what makes people tick (as I love psychology) Gaming is a big part of my life. I love everything from immersive RPGs to co-op adventures, to board games, card games and everything else really. I also have a huge range of interests from rain sounds 🌧️, and curling up with a warm blanket and a good show, to talking about kinks and life. I’m also an AuDHD person and have had my fair share of life experience so that’s why my interests are so broad. It’s definitely had a profound impact on my perspective.

I tend to be a bit reserved at first, but once I feel comfortable, I’m incredibly loyal, affectionate, and love to make the people in my life feel valued.

What I’m Looking For:

I’d love to meet a woman who’s kind, understanding, and enjoys meaningful conversations and shared moments. I’m naturally drawn to bigger women (BBW or SSBBW) and I find softness and curves incredibly attractive.

I am polyamorous and already have two wonderful partners however, none of us sleep with anyone else. My interest in polyamory is more about deep emotional connections and meaningful relationships rather than casual encounters. I believe in openness, communication, and relationships built on mutual care and respect.

I’m open to seeing where things go whether that’s something romantic, a deep emotional connection, or just a new friendship that could blossom into something more. I value warmth, humor, and authenticity above all else.

If This Resonates With You…

Let’s chat! 😊 If you love deep talks, soft blankets, gaming, or just connecting with someone who genuinely appreciates you for who you are, I’d love to hear from you. No pressure, no expectations just seeing where things naturally lead.