Hello, I'm Xander, and I'm hoping to find a long-term Domme to serve and learn from. Trans women are women and I'd love to chat with you. Preferably, you are local to the DMV, but I'm open to online as well if we are a really good fit. I would still prefer you be close enough to eventually and semi routinely meet.

5'9", some extra around the middle, shortish brown hair, short beard, hazel eyes, white, tattoos, and pierced ears. Polyam (one nesting partner with no D/s dynamic), pansexual, and demisexual. Veteran, EMT behind a desk, and student.

Outside of the bedroom I enjoy gaming of all kinds, hockey, hiking, traveling, reading, music, movies, and just hanging out in good company. I'm always looking to find new people to game with online, so I hope that interests you, even if you aren't looking for a full dynamic.

Ideally, what I'm looking for is a long-term poly Domme who is interested in helping with self growth as well as play. I am looking for goal accountability in general and preferably in-person workouts and other activities. I have several things I would like to improve on and/or start doing. I want to be with someone who wants to talk throughout the day and keeps consistent communication.

I have served in a variety of capacities before, in my 15 years in the lifestyle, to include domestic service, assisting with home projects, keeping company for self driven tasks, personal organizing, as well as bottoming for play and fun things.

I don't have any particular physical traits I'm looking for, but I would prefer someone at least 30. Please be able to communicate your wants, needs, and any concerns effectively. This is key to me. It is something I have worked hard on myself, and I've been ghosted too many times to not mention this upfront.

I'm very open-minded and into a lot with few limits. Into the dirtier and psychological sides of things more than being a masochist. We can discuss specifics later if you're interested.

Thank you for your time and consideration. I hope to hear from you soon.