Hey there,

I’m looking for a new connection, someone for conversation during the day, some laughs, flirting, and more. Someone local would be wonderful but I have had amazing online relationships with long-distance partners in the past so distance is not a huge factor if the vibes are great. I value an emotional connection just as much as a physical one. In terms of relationship dynamics, I have practiced parallel poly with my nesting partner for several years now, and I also have a girlfriend and a long-distance comet at the moment.

Physically, I’m 6’, white, and active - hitting the gym on my evening commute is my mental buffer between work and home. I played offensive line in my youth and that body is always going to be there - which also makes it ideal for cuddles. I’m a gentle giant though, always happy to drop what I’m doing and lend a hand. I love animals but dogs have my heart, I rescued a goldendoodle last year, keep treats in my trunk just in case I see one at the park, and if you show me a puppy, you’ll see a large grown man squee.

I’m an engineer (absolutely ISTJ), I develop, analyze, and verify software for a living. I delight in making people laugh, whether it’s making puns or firing memes back and forth. In a social setting I may be one of the quieter ones but get me one-on-one and I’m an excellent conversationalist. In my spare time, I’m building Legos, practicing mindfulness, lifting heavy shit, walking or hiking, volunteering, camping, or gaming on the Switch or PS5… basically being a Suburban White Dad™ (and yes I have the New Balances. You know the ones. They’re my mowing shoes.)

Honesty, loyalty, and good communication are critical for me. I’m easygoing, kind, fun, reliable, and I can listen to others without judgement. I’ve been told there’s something steady and disarming about me, and that I have a way of taking emotions out of a situation and giving unbiased advice.

If this sounds good to you, send me a message and let’s talk! How did you get into polyamory? What’s a song you heard recently that resonated with you? A film that made you pause and reflect? A trip that is on your bucket list? I look forward to getting to know you.