Hello lady redditors,

edit: I meant to click North America not North Africa on the tag :'(

Please keep all inquiries to those interested in in person meet ups, that is to say I'm not interested in random online chatting of any kind. With regards to my dating preferences, I'm open to most types of relationships, either casual/open or more committed if we really hit it off. As I really am ADHD af (I'm a Redditor after all, so duh), I have a pretty low social battery and my regular mental state is one of being constantly overwhelmed by the demands of full-time employment and life in general (I don't have/want kids but I have several family members with medical problems which require a lot of my help). I'm a busy boy and I do not want to be lol

Socializing takes a lot of energy for me, and I find it pretty difficult to develop close relationships and chemistry with people, and especially romantic partners. So yeah, ultimately, and most feasibly, my preferred partner would be fwb types where it's not of the utmost importance to be in overly frequent contact, at least all the time. My needs fluctuate quite a lot based on how busy I am at any given time, it's not unusual for me to go completely dark/short, nor to be on the needy side where I want lots of attention and I won't shut up. With that said I'm pretty much always hypersexual and even if I'm feeling anti-social I'll always respond to my partner's libido. I have my own place but not my own car and as a result I prefer to host whatever it is we have planned. Friday and Saturday nights are best for me in general.

As for my interests, I'm pretty much completely consumed by progressive politics and activism. In spite of my problematic kinks, I'm a proudly militant lefty. I got a late start to these leanings, and when I'm not organizing with the local DSA branch (I know, I know, lol) I'm probably reading about international finance/imperialism, and history/politics in general (like I said, pretty niche interests). I truly am all consumed by my desire to understand the world around me as we live in such troubling times. Pipe dream though it may be, I really do want to do whatever I can to leave the world a better more kind place than the one we've been born into. I think it starts with an understanding of the modern institutions of power and control and being able to criticize and correct them properly. Free Palestine, abolish capitalism, death to America. If you have dedicated MAGA/Blue MAGA leanings we prolly won't have much to talk about unless you just wanna argue which, actually, could be fun ig in the right contexts. Not a partier but 420 friendly, I pretty much rely on edibles to fall asleep and it helps with my bedroom freakiness.

I have a couple of cats who are littermates, and I am a believer in cat supremacy. If you have severe cat allergies, well what a poor devil you are. When there is time for it, I enjoy pretentious artsy film and music as well, just stuff that makes me feel something. With that said, for the most part, I really am pretty hyper-fixated on either sex or politics these days and will have limited ability to engage in conversations about much else.

Physical Description: 5'8 and I hover around 150 pounds, I'm on the slender side and like to think of myself as sort of a pretty boy. Fair complexion with shoulder length dark hair, and big brown eyes I've always been told are dreamy or otherwise complimented on by virtually every partner I've had. I prefer to be clean shaven these days, but I have a pretty consistent five o'clock shadow that I think suits me. I don't lift so if muscles and abs are a necessity for you, look elsewhere. Pictures of me are posted on my profile. I think it's about time for a haircut if I'm being honest but at this time, I don't really know what to do with it. Happy to have suggestions if there's anyone who enjoys that kinda thing.

Just to avoid any awkwardness, with regards to your own appearance, I am hardly the pickiest guy, plenty of different looks can work for me, and I actually love a flattering amount of thickness in a woman, but basically it won't work for me if you're overly heavyset. Just figure it's best to have that out there in advance.

I really have embraced and grown to love the mid-mannered pretty boy intellect dom archetype. I've been pretty online most of my life, and it took me awhile to discover that confidence, so I don't have as much experience as I'd like but it's given me way more confidence than I had in my earlier years being sexually active. All the same, I can still be sorta clumsy and awkward at times, so someone who doesn't mind a little bit of that would also be welcomed.

For more details of the types of things I'm into you can chat me of course and/or check out some of my posts on NSFW subs.