Going to preface this post and say i’m a rambler so it’s going to be a long read. However if you have messaged me in the past and I didn’t reply, please feel free to message again. I love a follow up.

Uuhhhmmm so Hellooo my lovelies!!

Going to list some stuff real quick: - Married but date separately. Mixture of KT/Parallel. Two cats but child free (don’t mind if you have), plan on getting more cats and dogs. - She/Her, pansexual/queer, very Demisexual. I’m 5’11, mixed, naturally curvy/thicc. Pretty face, brown eyes and brown hair. Lots of tattoos and piercings. I have a very witchy/goth/hippie aesthetic but I spend most of my time in leggings and nerdy tees because i’m old and want to be comfy. - I love to read, listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love love looove all sorts of music and Shoujo anime. I love to dance, go for long walks and bike rides. I enjoy keeping both my mind and body active. - Neurodivergent with some sensory issues, especially with physical touch but we can chat about that in more depth later.

The good stuff: The past couple of months i’ve been doing a lot of internal work. I’m embracing being ‘too much’ for people. I’m embracing being soft, vulnerable and passionate. I will no longer apologise for these things. I believe the only way we can get through our collective grief living in late stage capitalism is being open, kind and soft. I’m looking for deep connections and conversations. I love to learn from people. I’ve always had a deep curiosity for the universe and I love to learn from all perspectives without judgement. Because of this, I am a yapper. You have been warned! Hahaha I like a lot of communication and contact but I am realistic about it. When we ‘click’ I will bug you daily with my rambles, thoughts, questions, memes, music etc. little things to let you know I’m thinking of you. I’m looking for someone to march my energy with this, I don’t want to be the only one driving the conversation.

Looking for: - People aged between 28 - 45. - People close to PST time zones for maximum yapping! I am open to LDR because I love to travel and want to see more of the world. - People who are compassionate, kind but don’t take themselves too seriously. - People that are self aware and you are actively working on yourself mentally and physically. I take great pride in always trying to improve myself and i’m looking for people who want to cheer me on while I cheer you on. - People that have the time and energy to develop something deep and meaningful, and you enjoy lots of communication.

Bonus points! - You love animals so much you no longer eat them. - You’re part of the queer community. - You’re experienced in BDSM and open to a D/s dynamic. I am very sub leaning but a bit of a brat. I much prefer soft Doms/tops over anything too rough. I have a wide range of kinks but I enjoy a lot of cg/l and pet aspects. - You just want to be friends!!

That’s enough of my rambling. Hope to speak soooon!