Hi! I’m a 36-year-old polyamorous woman based in Boston, looking for both platonic and romantic, long-term connections with folka who knows themselves, values mutual respect, and is excited to build something meaningful. I’m emotionally available, communicative, and passionate about living a creative and adventurous life—and I’m looking for partners who do the same.

A Bit About Me: I work behind the scenes in community theater and spend my free time diving into my hobbies. I’m a total geek at heart, with a love for sci-fi and fantasy (Star Wars, Star Trek, Terry Pratchett, and Lord of the Rings are some of my favorites). I also enjoy cosplay, tabletop games (new to D&D!), LARPing, and attending conventions like Connecticon.

When I’m not indulging in nerdy pursuits, you’ll find me skiing New England slopes, exploring museums, or planning my next trip—Scotland is a favorite, and Japan is at the top of my travel wishlist. I’m also a foodie who loves trying new restaurants and savoring a good scotch.

What I’m Looking For: I’m seeking a partner who:

• Is Experienced in Polyamory: You’ve been navigating poly dynamics for while and this is not your first rodeo.

• For romantic connections - Is Not Married or Entangled: You’re unattached or in relationships that don’t limit autonomy.

• Lives Near Boston: Regular, in-person connection is a must for me.

• Loves Quality Time & Affection: Regular hangouts, physical affection, and kind words are important to me.

• Communicates Openly: Between dates and hangouts, I value regular check-ins and conversations.

• Respects Autonomy: No vetoes or agreements with other partners that limit our connection.

• Has A Fulfilling Life In and Out of the House: I love folks who have hobbies that are excited about, both those they enjoy at home and those that get them out and about in community

What You’ll Get With Me: A creative, curious, and adventurous partner who’s ready to prioritize meaningful connection. I value autonomy and balance in relationships—whether it’s cozy nights in, spontaneous outings, or planning for the future. I’m also exploring sensory play and kink as part of a romantic relationship, but intimacy and trust come first for me.

Bonus Points If You:

• Are into geeky hobbies and want to share your passions with me.

• Enjoy cuddling, playful banter, and deep conversations.

• Can balance independence with investing in a shared connection.

If this sounds like the kind of relationship you’re looking for, reach out! Tell me about yourself, what you’re into, and what you’re looking for. Let’s see where this goes.