Mid-40s white male looking for a woman around my age for  conversation, dating, and anything else that is of mutual interest. I am married, but have an ethically non-monogamous (ENM) dynamic with my wife. She is happy to verify. She's also may be interested in friendship with you, if there's mutual interest.

 I'd describe myself as an average, easygoing, father figure type. I have 4 kids, a good job, and I am overeducated for sure. I traveled extensively in my younger years and I am fortunate to have experienced other cultures. I have stories that I like to share and I really enjoy hearing the stories of others, as well. I love to learn and I have a wide-range of interests. Politically, I skew more Libertarian than anything, but I can accept that others see and experience the world differently than I do.

Physically, I am 5'8" and have a rather sturdy build. I work out 2-3 times a week and I see myself as in-shape, but still soft enough to cuddle up with. I rarely say no to pizza. I am a light drinker and non-smoker. I can't partake in 420 due to professional restrictions, but I don't mind if you're into it. (I am not a cop or law enforcement of any kind) I am also STI free, including HSV 1 & 2, with my most recent test being December 2024. I am happy to share results

My interests in a partner vary. It's really about the personality and willingness to engage in conversation. Physically, I would like someone that takes care of themselves and would consider themselves average to in-shape. But also doesn't say no to pizza. I would ask that you also provide recent STI results, to include HSV if things move towards a physical connection. Personality-wise, extroverts work well with my own extroverted personality, but any introverts that are open to regular communication are also welcome. I just really hate having to drive the conversation all the time.

If you're still with me, here's a link to some pics of me to get an idea of what I look like. I currently have a mustache, which my wife loves and I'm not ashamed to be seen in public with:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/rZnJ9brhK3JtuB8m9