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My name is Butterfly and I am 35 years old.
I am so excited for 2024 to be over, and start fresh in 2025. I would love to start the new year with some new relationship energy. I love the building of sexual tension, the making out, soft touches, late night intimate conversations, endless flirting and just falling head over heels for each other.
So, what should I tell you .... I live in Alberta, Canada with my husband of 7 years and our fur babies (ask me their names!). I also have two long distance partners. I am so lucky to have what I do, so why am I posting here? I am still missing something - maybe that's you! While I would love to find a partner who is local to Alberta (I am near Calgary), I am also open to meeting people anywhere and seeing what happens.
I love the beginning of a new relationship, getting to know somebody, making that connection and creating the magic together. I want to have the butterflies in my tummy.
A bit about me:
- I am sweet and have been told I am adorable. I am a total princess (but not in a spoiled way). I am girly and feminine.
- I have been told that my voice is what makes people fall in love with me.
- I am plus size. I am working on learning to love myself in my own body, while also working on being healthier overall.
- I have rediscovered my love for reading and read 78 books in 2024. I also enjoy bowling, binge watching TV shows, being crafty, board games and spending time with "my people".
- This year I specifically worked on stepping outside of my comfort zone. In April I was a part of the cast of a production with our local theater group! And I wore my first bikini on vacation. I haven't yet set my intention for 2025, but I am very proud of what I accomplished in 2024.
- I like to say that I am 5 years old on the inside. I love Disney, glitter, and stuffies. I like to indulge my inner child!
- I blush way too easily.
- I am a switch. If you know you know .... (I also have over 150 toys)
- I work remotely from home and have the time to chat during the day. I also struggle with insomnia and am usually up pretty late.
- While I am usually pretty busy, I always have time to connect with the people who matter to me. I am a great listener and I am loyal to those I love.
What I am looking for:
Honestly? I don't have any specific expectations. I am open to friendship. a good conversation, an online play partner, or falling in love. I do prefer long term over short term connections. And I am not just here for R rated chat, I want substance. While all of my relationships have been with men, I am open to exploring a connection with a man, woman or somebody who is trans or genderfluid. I do have some preferences though:
- A good sense of humour. Willing to have fun and laugh. I love bantering and teasing, so being able to take it, as well as give it back is a huge plus.
- Over the age of 28 but under 48.
- Physical looks don't matter so much to me. However, if you are a big teddy bear of a man, have tattoos and/or a beard, that is a plus.
- Time zones don't matter so much, as long as you have time to talk during my waking hours - MT time zone.
If any of the above interests you, I would love to hear from you! Please send me a chat or message with a bit about you. If you just say Hi, I am less likely to answer. Don't make me do all the work with the conversation.
Can't wait to chat!
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