32F in Michigan, solo poly with 2 kids. I'm (newly discovered) neurodivergent and have anxiety, plus I've become quite a hermit over the years, so meeting new people can be challenging for me. I'm putting myself out there for the first time in a long time.

I'm currently in a long-term relationship with my nesting partner of nearly 7 years. He's aware that I'm looking for myself.

A bit about myself: I'm very tall and covered in tattoos/have piercings. I have colored, long hair that's always changing. I'm thinner but curvy. I will want to share pictures upon speaking. I'm also demisexual.

My partner and I have 3 dogs who we love dearly of all sizes. I'm a lover of music and movies of all kinds. I'm quite the collector. I have a nice vinyl collection going now, with numerous statues and figures from my favorite games/shows, some mang, and plushies. I'm a proud nerd. I watch some anime (mostly when I was younger, but Studio Ghibli, Death Note and Fruits Basket always have a place in my heart). I've mostly graduated into adult animated series such as Arcane, Blue Eye Samurai, Scavengers Reign (hence my username), Pantheon, etc.

I have quite a traumatic past that I will someday share with you. But I'm also not trying to trauma dump while getting to know someone. Just want to be upfront that the ptsd and neurodivergency can be hard for me to handle at times. But I will share with you as I learn to trust you. I have been receiving SSI for several years now. It was incredibly hard for me to hold a job due to what I've been through, and it's not a permanent solution. But it has provided me with ample time with my kids and has allowed me to focus on my mental health/healing.

I love animals, love art. I don't go out very often, but I occasionally enjoy shopping and thrifting, going to an arcade/restaurant. I don't go to shows nearly as much as I used to, as my anxiety has gotten worse as I've gotten older. But I do enjoy them. Music means a lot to me. Favorites such as Lady Gaga, Doja Cat, Tyler, the Creator, The Doors, Massive Attack, A Tribe Called Quest, Gojira, Karol G, Young Miko, Aurora, Heilung (I could go on and on). I'm a gamer with multiple consoles in my home, mostly using a ps5 myself. I don't play as much as I would like, but I do avidly play Zero Build on Fortnite. The Last Of Us, A Plague Tale, Detroit: Become Human, and Stardew Vallew are some of my other favorites. I'm starting to play Metaphor: ReFantazio and CyberPunk.

I do have my medical card and smoke daily. So if that's an issue for you, I'm not your girl.

I would like someone who isn't super busy and has time to communicate on a regular basis. I understand people have lives/jobs and won't get upset about promptness, but I do enjoy conversing with my partners on a regular basis. I'm only looking to date one other person aside from my nesting partner.
I'd like to meet someone who hopefully has kids of their own or can at least understand the joys and struggles of parenting. Someone who is kind, funny, empathetic, and understanding.

I would obviously prefer to date someone in Michigan, but I'm not opposed to a long-distance relationship. I would like to start as friends and see how our conversations go and go from there. Preferably between 28-35.

Please DM me if you think we might be a good fit, and let's see where this goes 💖