Partnered, we date seperately and practice Kitchen Table polyamory

With that out of the way, hello! I never really know how to start these posts off, or whether I should keep them short and funny or long and detailed. I'm going with long and detailed today, so bear with me.

I'm 39 years old, living in the suburbs of Madison. I've been living here for the last year, working in tech and generally enjoying my life here.

I've lived in Pakistan, Paris, Nevada, WA, NY state, Illinois and now Wisconsin in my life, so one might say I've been around the block. I also work remotely so travel is always on the agenda.

Where were we? Oh, yes. Travel. I know how everyone on their dating profile states how much they love to travel. Well, I genuinely love to travel. I love visiting new places, people, experiences, food, culture. You name it.

I'm a dork, a geek, a nerd. But I feel like everyone on reddit is a bit nerdy nowadays anyway. What does my nerdiness consist of? Anything ranging from comic books, to table top games, to board games, fantasy/sci-fi novels, computer games and science! I love it all. If you're into that stuff, I'd love to discuss it. Some favorite authors: Neil Gaiman, Brandon Sanderson, Stephen King.

I love to cook, I love to eat (as you will see in my photos), I am 420 friendly, I swing extremely to the left when it comes to politics.

What am I looking for? I am open to an emotional and physical long term relationship. I would like to form connections of intimacy, vulnerability, honesty and empathy. I put an extremely high value on good communication (it is essential for successful relationships, extremely so if you are poly) and kindness. I'm open to long distance with the caveat that we would meet one day if the chemistry is mutual.

I'm body and sex positive, kink friendly, 420 friendly. I'm Pro Palestine, trans rights and if you disagree we will not vibe.

I'm looking for someone that recharges me, where I give a silly, small smile when I see they texted me, who makes me laugh and look forward to each interaction with. Someone who isn't a drain on me (introverts unite!) and who would love to share their hopes and dreams and loves with. If you are that person, what are you waiting for? Message me!