Merry Christmas poly peeps!
Laying here thinking about the new year and big changes coming my way. My poly partner of 4 years just got engaged to her other partner. After some honest conversations we both agreed I’d be happiest with my own primary partner so here I am starting the search.
I’m a Caucasian male, 5’9”, fit who’s generally laid back but not lazy. CTO by day, mix of homebody and travel adventurer other times. Love a mix of high activity followed by down time. Catch me mountain biking or skiing during the day, then a good meal and binge a show at night.
I like my partners smart, like really smart. I tend to click well with people curious about how others tick, history of dating therapists, coaches, and psychologists. I’m very science minded, so anyone in those fields will get along with me. I’m very handy and techy so can fix most anything.
I also like my partners sexy, which is more about state of mind than looks. I do prefer height/weight proportional but so many women have a little extra that’s sexy. I’ve been involved in swinging and would love more of that. Kink friendly but not super hard core, I tend towards dominant side but don’t call myself a dom. I do love a “good girl”.
I am looking to build something long term, which means I’m willing to take it slow to build something lasting. Still hoping we can’t keep our hands off each other though. My love languages are touch and quality time, but I do a lot of acts of service for my partners.
DM me if interested and Happy New Year!
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