Hey there,

I’m looking for a new connection, someone for conversation during the day, some laughs, flirting, and more. Someone local would be wonderful but I have had amazing online relationships with long-distance partners in the past so distance is not a huge factor if the vibes are great. I value an emotional connection just as much as a physical one. In terms of relationship dynamics, I have practiced parallel poly with my nesting partner for several years now, and I also have a girlfriend and a long-distance comet at the moment.

Physically, I’m 6’, white, and active - hitting the gym on my evening commute is my mental buffer between work and home. I played offensive line in my youth and that body is always going to be there - think Jason Kelce, not Travis. I was described as “Republican wrapped” once - my outward appearance would lead you to believe my politics are the polar opposite of what they really are. I’m a gentle giant, always happy to drop what I’m doing and lend a hand. I love animals but dogs have my heart, I keep treats in my trunk just in case I see one at the park, and if you show me a puppy, you’ll see a grown man squee.

I’m an engineer (absolutely ISTJ), I develop, analyze, and verify software for a living. I delight in making people laugh, whether it’s making puns or firing memes back and forth. In a social setting I may be one of the quieter ones but get me one-on-one and I can be a chatterbox. In my spare time, I’m building Legos, practicing mindfulness, walking or hiking, going to a game or a comedy club, taking my kids to things or skunking them at Mario Kart… basically being a Suburban White Dad™ (and yes I have the New Balances. You know the ones. They’re my mowing shoes.)

Honesty, loyalty, and good communication are critical for me. I’m easygoing, reliable, kind, fun, and I can listen to others without judgement. I’ve been told there’s something steady and disarming about me, and that I have a way of taking emotions out of a situation and giving unbiased advice.

If this sounds good to you, send me a message and let’s talk! How did you get into polyamory? What’s a song you heard recently that resonated with you? A film that made you pause and reflect? A trip that is on your bucket list? I look forward to getting to know you.