I’ve been open quite a long time and well everyone does it differently. So in attempt to avoid pitfalls of my past, I want to find emotional openness with out the chains of hierarchy. I’m vasectomized and don’t believe in marriage. I want to be able to love someone fully and let them love me as well. I’m not interested in someone seeing me as a place holder for their next crush or as their sex toy when they are not getting attention from their primary… just want to have a mutual and uplifting connection based on ingenuity.

I think most people in poly are on the “nerdy side”. Myself have a wide net as I love exploring nature and am a little bit of a funguy 🍄. Along with that I really enjoy taking photos and doing art. My comfort food is video games, if you can appreciate gaming as an interactive form of art, I think I would greatly appreciate you. Recently was blown away by the silent hill 2 remake, and currently going through FF7 rebirth again. Music tastes tend to be indie sounding, slothrust - crockpot is my filter for if our tastes click. I have a bit of a variety is the spice mentality and along with that enjoy weed and the occasional dance with Molly and mushrooms.

If all the nerd stuff got you hot and bothered, I’ve also dabbled in writing erotica and get a hefty sum of 6 dollars a month from Amazon which to me it’s kind of magical I’m giving long distance orgasms while I’m sleeping. Sexually I lean dominant but it’s all just adult play to me, the keys to my castle lie within my feelings as I’m quite Demisexual.

My current life involves my two cats and someone I’ve shared my life with for the past 8 years who was also open when we first met. I live on my own and in a turning point. Just started therapy for the first time to help with something I’ve known for awhile but have only felt more recently tackling and working on my physical health as well(open to provide pictures upon request). I currently live in Eugene Oregon but will be relocating(though visiting frequently) to Portland once my lease is up in 4 months cause the food selection is damned amazing and my interactions with people here have been more of my vibe.

If this speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you and feel free to dm.

Side note I have my adult life well wrangled(work remotely generally stable) and hoping you do too, just trying to nurture love in my life at this point. Recently got into streaming on twitch, cause I do want to make some more gamer nerdy friends.