Warm hearted, down to earth, affectionate, intelligent, extrovert seeks a long term partner. My primary love language is physical touch so ideally this partner would be close by or willing to relocate eventually if things worked out.

I am very happily married to a wonderful woman. While we date separately we have had experience dating the same person. We do our best to confront our couples privilege and are open to altering our entanglements to bring a partner into our family. We practice Kitchen Table Polyamory. At a minimum my wife would love a live-in best friend to do girly things with. We prefer communicating about things instead of imposing rules on each other’s relationships.

I offer nearly inexhaustible understanding and love. I do not neglect my own needs for others, but beyond that I will do nearly anything for those I love. Even those I don’t. I think boundaries are extremely important. I’m also great in stressful situations and have been called walking Prozac.

I am non-binary and present very masc. Shaved head, beard, men’s fashion, dad bod, 5’10”. I’m creative, confident (not cocky), and I am constant self-reflecting.

Who I’m looking for is fairly wide open. I would like someone I can sit on the couch with and have long discussions on philosophy and the universe. I get along best with bubbly personalities.

Kink is a must. If you’re curious about kink and you’re open to exploring that’s good enough. If you’ve had decades of experience and are very comfortable with exploring that’s even better. I am Dominant. I am happy to go more in depth about my kink interests in private.

I like to move slowly in terms of emotional investment, but only in so long as we take the time to establish compatibility. Which is to say that I will take my time vetting you and letting you vet me before I feel comfortable making commitments. That can include voice and video calls. It can also include meeting up for dates. Lastly I prefer to verify early on. That simply means exchanging a few pictures within the first week.

If you’ve read this far I hope you are having a great week.