Hey There!
I’m a 29-year-old autistic cis-male, looking to connect with someone who values deep, meaningful relationships. While I have a nesting partner, I believe there’s always room for more than one special connection. I’m looking for a female to explore new experiences with - intellectually, emotionally, and physically - and build something real together.
A Little About Me
I’m a software engineer by day, but I’m also a bit of a Renaissance man. I’m the type who likes to dabble in just about everything - whether it’s exploring new tech, getting hands-on with creative projects, or learning a new skill for fun. I enjoy diving into a wide range of hobbies: video games, photography, water sports, movies/TV (especially when paired with a killer home theater setup), and building things with my hands. I’m social and outgoing, but I also appreciate quiet time to recharge. Helping the people around me and supporting the ones I care about is something I genuinely value.
Personality Snapshot
I’m driven, ambitious, and love to think big. As an ENTJ, I thrive on challenges and enjoy exploring new ideas. I’m also a Cancer, which means I’m in touch with my emotions and place a high value on close, authentic relationships. As an 8w7 on the Enneagram, I know when to take charge, but also when to let just vibe. I enjoy embracing spontaneity and always seeking to push boundaries and experience new things.
What I’m Into Sexually
I’m kink-positive and always open to exploring new dynamics. Vanilla’s never been my thing - I enjoy trying new things and discovering what excites both myself and others. I’m heteroflexible and dominant, but I want to make it clear that I’m not here for just a hookup. I’m looking for a meaningful connection, where we can explore and grow together in a way that’s built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. For me, it’s about creating an experience where we both feel safe and excited to dive deeper.
What I’m Looking For
I’m looking for someone to connect with on every level - intellectually, emotionally, and physically. I value openness, trust, and the ability to have fun while growing together. Ideally, you’re someone who can carry a conversation with ease and share meaningful exchanges, but also someone I feel a strong physical attraction to. While physical appearance isn’t everything, it’s important to me that there’s a spark and chemistry between us. While I’m open to starting things online, I’m definitely looking to meet in person when the time feels right. If long-distance is involved (within reason), I’m all for video calls and will happily jump on a plane if we’re vibing and things feel right.
Let’s Make It Happen
If you’re looking for someone who’s adventurous, confident, and ready to build something real, let’s talk! I’m all about creating connections and seeing where they go. Send me a message and let’s see where this journey takes us!
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