Hello!

I've reached out on Reddit a few times and met some lovely people; their number is now dwindling due to the natural life cycles of online chat relationships, so I figured I'd reach out again with more specificity in mind. I'd love online chats with a serious language partner (I used to be one) who likes poetry (I'm very much one). I mentioned the languages I've focused on, but I also studied Chinese, Spanish, Japanese and others--in other words, as long as you're serious about languages, we'll get along. I have no gift for it, just enthusiasm; learning them is what intrigues me. If we really hit it off, we can watch movies together and compare notes on our favorite books, argue about translations and boost each others' egos when it comes to publishing. I'm not opposed to a LDR/comet relationship developing over time, but I move really slowly and am very heartbroken, so fair warning.

This account was started to help me recover from the end of a very important relationship, so I write a poem and post a NSFW self-portrait every day; it's been very therapeutic, but I feel like I might be ready to try more deliberate interaction. If you're primarily interested in my photos, I'm flattered but not interested. If you know who Mary Oliver is, please message me.

I'm married, polyamorous, and have a bad heart condition; if you are married monogamously and looking for an AP, it's not me (on this sub, this means absolutely no PUD situations, please and thank you); if you are polyam/ENM or single and questioning, I'm curious. But seriously--that heart condition means I'm extremely drama averse. I'm introverted, moody, sexy, honest, kind, and busy in spite of myself. Have no preferences with appearance, race/ethnicity/nationality, but would prefer ages 29 and up (44/2 7). Just in case we fall madly in love, ya know? I want to be friends, genuine friends, and that is the kind of love I am currently looking forward to. If that energy seems like it might meet some need in you, let's talk.

Thank you for reading--