Hey there! I’m Queeny.

I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship. If you’re not interested in something meaningful, let’s save each other some time. I want to be someone's girlfriend, and I value clear labels in relationships. If that’s not your goal, this might not be the right fit.

I know what I want and I’m not into wasting time—dating can be exhausting enough as it is!

A bit about my personality:

I thrive on attention, and during my rather uneventful work hours, I have a lot of free time. So, keep me entertained with texts, voice notes, or Snapchats! 💜

I’m silly, goofy, and a little awkward. If you’re not into regular texting or tend to go days without replying, I might not be the right match for you.

I’m loud and opinionated; quiet is just not my style. I’m also very empathetic and feel things deeply.

I embrace my body as I am, so if you’re not into plus-sized women, I’m probably not for you. I’m focused on being healthier, but I’m proud of who I am right now.

I currently have a nesting partner, and I’d love to connect with someone a bit closer to home. I’m open to long distance if you’re willing to put in the effort—think dedicated video calls, regular texts, and occasional visits.

I’m a mom to two elementary-aged kids, and they certainly keep me on my toes! If you’re not interested in hearing about my parenting journey, we might not be a good match.

If your opening message is just “hey” or a vague introduction, it’s likely to be ignored. (If you have actually read this add the upside down smile emoji along with some actual info) I’d love to know more about you—your name, if you have kids or partners, your hobbies, and what you do for work!

As for what I’m seeking:

I’m openly polyamorous and value transparency. I won’t be kept a secret, and I’m not looking to be anyone’s ‘secondary’. If you can’t offer an autonomous relationship, let’s not waste time.

I don’t practice parallel polyamory, so if meeting each other’s partners isn’t on the table, it’s probably not a match. I believe that the people important to you should matter to me as well.

Human rights are non-negotiable for me. If you don’t support BIPOC, trans, queer, and women’s rights, we won’t align. If you voted for Trump, didn’t vote, or voted third party, we’re likely not going to get along.