This post is to address a few things that seem to come up on repeat for the moderators.

1. The Rules laid out in the sticky post and side bar are pretty easy to follow and self explanatory. Looking at Rule 2; it doesn't matter how good your post is. If it breaks any part of Rule 2 then it will be removed. Rule 3 will remain eternally controversial I'm sure. If you are a couple using a single account to both look individually for individual partners that will be allowed (if deemed sub-optimal). As it stands a single person can look to join a couple. This may change. Couples looking to have some "join" there existing relationship are clearly breaking Rule 3, and as per the stickied rules post we will be moderating these closely. Finally, remember that mods can also see your profile and your posts, and we do sometimes use this to inform our decisions. Likewise we can also see if your profile is suspiciously empty. Posting all over for a no strings attached threesome for example, and then posting something a little different here, will still get your post removed.

2. Reports. Using the report function is the single best way to draw moderator attention to rule breaking and problematic behavior. One of the mods spent a good deal of today catching up and clearing the backlog of reports. They deserve a medal for that effort! Please don't just chalk up a problem to experience and move on, report the post or let the mod team know. We do get occasional abuse of the report button but it's thankfully rare. Equally a mass number of the same or similar reports on a post lets us know how the community feels.

3. Content creators can absolutely post genuine polyr4r's here. Being a creator doesn't bar you from posting. However, funneling users directly to a paid service is a definite breach of the rules. If you respond to an R4R and they try to move you to OnlyFans (always seems to be OnlyFans), please let us know. I would prefer a screenshot or something as proof, but do let us know. This behavior will catch a ban.

4. Moderation in general, At the moment most of the human moderation here is happening on/around GMT. Therefore modmail and reports will be responded to on the basis of that timezone (mostly). But everything is got to eventually. Please remember that we are all human and volunteers. We do our best to maintain this Sub to the highest possible standard. But we also have real lives.