Let's get some messy stuff out of the way, so that the people who will leave, will. First of all, I have kids and they're also my job, so I will talk about them. You can ask me to limit topics of course, but talking about my life comes with getting to know me, and if the topic is upsetting to you, I'm not for you. Part of this is that I'm divorced, and I don't have custody, so if this sounds upsetting or unrelatable, by all means, move onto someone else.

I am hsv1 . I don't have my own place (would love to find a roommate, or multiple, eventually) and I don't drive. I am not thin/have a bit of a belly. I am autistic and ADHD, and have a difficult time understanding social cues and friendship, though I'm trying. Anyone responding to this must be open to the possibility of just friends, as there's no guarantee we'll be into each other. I love getting to know people, and I'm not a fan of the pressure of romance and relationships(probably arospec, kinda).

I don't do kitchen table, at least not right away. I'm here for YOU, not you partner partner partner partner and so and so forth, all at once. It's hard enough being around people in public everyday appearances, and to expected to deal with two or more people at once, immediately is a lot. I am autistic, I don't like surprises and social overload. If needing to meet your partner(s) in the first meeting is a requirement, just skip me. If you want to message me to say you think I'm not poly, just save it and don't.

I would prefer anyone who isn't cishet, but I get there's cishet femboys sometimes. But for the most part I'm not really wanting to be with hairy white cis men. Sorry, I've just been with a lot of them, including my ex husband. Plus I'm an Asian American, if that helps with understanding why.

For anyone else who is still here, hi, I'm Ed, I'm nonbinary and my pronouns are they/them! I moved here in 2023 and was hoping to have more friends by now, but idk I'm working on it. I really enjoy discovering new music. I just went to my first concert this year (The Front Bottoms), which was pretty exciting, since I don't normally do that kind of thing. I always do everything alone, but I hope to go to these events and possibly others with someone? I most recently saw Amigo the Devil last night, which was awesome. I would love to go see some music in the Spanish language/Mexican regional music, (but I'm not sure where those events are at.) A concert I'm looking forward to in the future is Molchat Doma 🥰. Regarding the horror movie thing, I haven't seen many, since I need a movie watching buddy!

I enjoy going out to eat at restaurants with cuisine I haven't had before. Would love to try a West African restaurant here, for example. I enjoy drawing, and I'd love to meet up a coffee shop and chill and draw you, possibly. I enjoy infodumping, so of course I would love to support in listening to all of what you'd need to rant about. I really want to be a supportive friend to someone and do what I can to bestow the knowledge I have, or listen.

If you've gotten this far, tell me the name of horror movie you recently have seen, or a band you've recently discovered, or maybe decided to listen more of lately.

Hope to hear from you!