Everyone keeps telling me that it’s a good thing that I’m so picky(I know what I want and have high standards) but I just CANNOT find someone that
1. IS ATTRACTIVE
2. Doesn’t only talk about sex
3. can carry a conversation
4. The obvious (has a job, is literate, very good hygiene,etc..)
I have plenty of matches but I lose interest within 24 hours when they can only talk sex after we talk about it. I’m starting to get really discouraged.
Anyway, here’s my bio from one of the apps. Maybe I’ll find someone here.
Married and exploring ENM for the past year and a half. Dating separately but down to meet a like minded couple as well.
About me: I’m a little old lady at heart. I enjoy crocheting in my rocking chair with a dog on my lap and a horror movie on the tv. I frickin’ LOVE bingo, karaoke and filthy martinis. I was a goofy looking kid so I have a great personality. There’s not a jealous bone in my body and healthy communication is my strong suit. But…My quick bartender wit and sass will either win your heart or tick you off, or maybe both?
What I’m looking for: A real connection, the Dom/sub dynamic I’m into requires a lot of trust and honestly, I don’t think sex is even worth it without passion and an emotional connection. I prefer someone who is taller than me with my platform boots on(I’m 5’5 without them). I feel the next few things are pretty obvious; I like men who are assertive, caring, intelligent, fun and who have a good grasp on the importance of good bodily and oral hygiene. I’m open to all shapes and sizes but Dad Bods have a real hold on me. I prefer someone who has D/S experience but not a requirement.
Let’s f around and fall in loooovvvee
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