Hello!

38/M living in Milwaukee, looking for a preferably local-ish friend/partner/something for a meaningful long term friendship/partnership/something-ship. I've been poly for ~9 years, am married and we do not date together. No other partners right now. Childfree and staying that way (snip snip), I like kids okay but am looking for someone similarly childfree mainly from a time/energy/flexibility standpoint. Ideally I'd like to find someone that has in-person availability for hangouts or adventures at least once a week if we end up clicking well - I've got a decent amount of long-distance friends so I'm primarily looking for someone with in-person availability. Would consider something longer distance if it's otherwise a great match, but it's less ideal.

Current hobbies include hiking, PC/board gaming, and TV shows. Finally getting through my backlog of shows everyone else has seen and working through Breaking Bad. I tend to like sci-fi and animated comedies and prefer the TV show format to movies, but I do love me some shitty movies. I also enjoy cooking but I tend to cook infrequently in very large batches - so please eat my food.

Sex is nice and while I consider myself allosexual, I feel a lot less sex-motivated than a lot of people - for something more on the partnership side of the spectrum, both allosexual and grey-ace people sound lovely. Some degree of physical affection is important to me for both close friends as well as partners.

Also really looking for someone with experience with polyamory or if newer, having a solid understanding of what polyamory is, and confidence that this is what you want in the long term.

Currently rocking long hair, I apparently don't take many selfies that aren't me doing weird shit, so here's a normal one from a year and a half ago! And an obligatory weird one.

Outside of that - I tend to find a wide range of people interesting so long as we've got SOME hobbies/media interests in common - I'd love to hear from you!