Heyyo! I is Queeny.

I am seeking a serious long term relationship. If you don't have a relationship to offer, or don't want something serious- please don't waste both of our time. I wanna be a girlfriend. Labels are important to me. If that isn't the goal may as well stop reading now.

I know what I want, and I don't like wasting my time. Dating is already so exhausting.

A little blurb about my personality:

I love attention, and I work a ridiculously boring job and have waayy too much free time during the day while I am at work. Entertain me with texts, voice notes, snapchats. 💜

I am super silly and goofy and awkward. Ha. If you don't like texting, snapchatting etc or usually go days without texting I am not your girl.

I am a very loud and opinionated person. I have never been referred to as quiet. I am very empathetic and I feel my feelings deep and hard.

I am fat. So if big girls are not your thing I am not the one for you babes. Sorry. While I am on a journey to be healthier, I am not ashamed of being fat.

I currently have a nesting partner. I would love someone more local. But I am open to distance if you are willing to put in the effort. (And by effort I mean dedicated time spent video calling, texting throughout the day, willing to travel to meet me).

I have 2 elementary aged kiddos. They are a handful right now. This phase of parenting is hard. If you don't want to hear about my woes in parenting, I am not for you. Because they take up a lot of my energy.

If your first message says ‘‘hey I’d like to chat’’ or “46m nw iowa’’ it will be ignored. I need someone who can match my energy. You just read an entire post about me, tell me about you. What's your name? Do you have kids? Partners? What are your hobbies ? What do you do for work?

More about what I am seeking:

I am openly polyamorous. I will not be a secret. I have a negative interest in that. I also won't be a ‘secondary’. If you don’t have an autonomous relationship to offer, please don't waste my time.

I don't practice parallel polyamory. So if meeting your metas or me meeting my metas is not on the table I don't want it. That doesn't mean we need to he KTP or lapsitting or all be besties. But the people important to you will he important to me and I’d like the same respect back.

Human rights are important to me. If you don't believe in BIPOC, trans, queer, women's rights we won't mesh. I repeat, if you voted for Trump, you didn't vote or voted third party we will not get along. I already hate you.