Greetings, I'm Theo. That's not my real name, but it's what my friends call me. For privacy, I will share my photo and my name in our first messages! I apologize in advance for the lengthy post, I'm a writer and a self published author so it's hard for me to be succinct when it's about a topic I like.

About me:

6'1, white male. I am a big guy. I'm losing weight (down over 25 lbs so far) but I'm still a chonker! I'm located in Northeast TN. I'm poly and partnered. I am a massive nerd. I'm talking video games, dnd, the whole nine. I immensely enjoy nerd culture in general, and learning about other people's passions. One of my biggest hobbies (and my only source of income) is my writing, and I actually run D&D games for a living! Most of my work is for my dnd campaigns, but I write horror, fantasy, and adult smutty fiction. I've teen told I'm quite good!

I love animals, and one of my top ten desires is to be able to hug a bear without getting mauled to death. I don't know how that would happen, but I want it to. I'd also pet a moose or a hippo if they also both weren't incredibly dangerous land animals. I'm an animal lover, but I'm not an idiot.

I've been called funny quite a bit, and I love to make people laugh. I'm a bit of a people pleaser, but I definitely stick up for myself. I will never force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, and I won't ever send unsolicited inappropriate images.

Consent is extremely important to me, and I always ask, especially when getting to know someone, before touching them or asking anything risque.

Note: I am atheist, and a leftist. Politics are important to me but don't have to be to you.

What I'm looking for:

So for ease of access, I will be posting this in multiple subreddits. So this section will include kinks, but will be labeled so you can easily bypass them.

I am not picky with physical appearance at all, or age (18 ) for that matter. What matters is how we get along!

I want someone who is searching for friends, companionship, that hopefully leads to more. I try not to rush into real relationships, as it hasn't worked out in the past. Preferably you will be local, but I am ok with Online as long as we have plans to close the gap at some point, especially if we visit occasionally. I do have a high sex drive, but thankfully, due to the nature of poly relationships, you don't have to have a high drive!

Hopefully you are nerdy, nice, genuine, and affectionate. You appreciate kind words and gestures, and reciprocate touch. I want to find my person, someone I can call my genuinely best friend who is always in my corner, and I always have their back too. I value kindness and empathy to a large degree.

Please be good at communication, and reciprocate the energy that you receive in messages and in person. I'm not asking for novels or 24/7 texting, but I like to send a good morning/ good night text and see how people are doing generally speaking. Constant one word answers and no effort, while having me carry the entire conversation gets old after a while.

I'm disabled, and I don't make a ton of money, but I make enough to make due. I don't make much, but fortunately I have a lot of disposable income because I have very few bills. I'm undecided on children, but I'm open to it under the right circumstances.

I am a switch. That means I like being both dominant and submissive. This isn't bdsm personals so I won't elaborate on that here.

If you've read this far, by all means, send me a message! I'm open to chatting to see if we click! :)