Going to give this a try because the dating apps have STILL been so bad for a poly, partnered babe.

Getting the situation out of the way: I have a life partner/nesting partner(TransF). We have been together many many years and are happily very poly, but we are incredibly independent and love to encourage outside relationships for each other. Especially important because I do like men and annoyingly really value masculine presence close to me. Basically, I have been in situationship hell for a while now, and am really missing feeling something more significant with someone else. I want more love, intensity, intimacy and romance in my life. I want someone looking to share something deep.

Things about me (without trying to sound pretentious while also selling myself 😅) I am American but choosing whole heartedly and loving living in Europe. I adore being surrounded by international communities and getting to know people from all over. I love love love to travel and would ideally have a partner that wants to do that with me, or have me travel to see them etc.

I am a very deeply feeling and empathetic person. I am very moved by the suffering and beauty of humanity. I am fascinated by the complexities of the human experience. I am a bit of a hedonist, to be truthful. I love indulging in pleasure, happiness, joy etc whenever I can. This is how I cope with the crushing reality of human suffering every day. I have a masters degree and am a practicing therapist, I have pets I adore, I love to dance and am dancing very frequently. I have lots of meaningful friends and community. I am involved in activism and am very passionate about social issues. If you aren’t pro-Palestine don’t even reach out.

I speak Spanish B1 and German B2ish okayish. I really don’t like being romantic or sexual in German though 😂 love being romantic and sexual in Spanish though.

I’m kinky and fun. But also deep and tragic sometimes. I get in my feelings, okay? I’m just a girl 🥺 I’m very submissive - this is important as I really value a good sexual connection. I have a very high libido and enjoy sex a lot. Idk I think I’m pretty hot. I am often approached on the street and in public in general for my number etc. everyone has their insecurities, but generally speaking I think I’m lowkey hot. I’m curvy, tattooed a lot, long dark hair etc. I dress kinda hippie/alt girl vibes? But I think I’m very approachable.

You are ideally: At least 28 years old. Masculine, dominant. Secure in your identity and have experience handling jealousy and poly relationships. Emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, capable of deep conversation and thoughts. Looking for love and not just sex. Excited to travel and experience life while we have it. I love a little bit of a brood on a man that’s been through some shit. I love feeling protected, safe and cherished. Someone that wants to know how I’m feeling and wants to listen. Someone that will go dance with me maybe 🙈 definitely will travel. Appearance wise, I don’t know how super picky I am. I typically am tragically attracted to conventionally masculine features- taller, muscular, hairy, jawline etc. but height isn’t the most important I’m 5’3/163cm for reference. I love a good accent and a sexy voice. I love attention, who doesn’t?

If you made it this far I’m impressed already. Please reach out if this speaks to you. Ideally through message. Please don’t just say hi or sexualize me. Tell me about yourself, including a picture is really helpful! Please also include your location clearly.

I’m sorry Americans but I’m just so not interested in unnecessary travel to the US right now. I’m trying to keep this to Europe but I’m open to South of the US because I love Latin America and would love more excuses to go.

Let’s see how it goes!