Hello again! - If you have messaged before but I didn’t reply please feel free to message again. 🖤✌🏼🖤

Sooooo, when it comes to making any r4r type post, I like lists and ✨oversharing✨. So heeeerrreee goes:

About meeeee: - I’m married and we are a mix of kitchen/Parallel poly, child free (you don’t have to be), we have two cats and hoping to get dogs. - 5’11, mixed (naturally tanned), HWP but naturally curvy, brown hair and brown eyes. Lots of piercings and lots of tattoos (please don’t ask me about them 🙈) witchy/goth aesthetic but I spend day to day in leggings and nerdy tees. - She/Her, Pansexual queer, very Demisexual! Sometimes I think i’m some kind of grey ace because my attraction to people is very slow but then all of a sudden it clicks and then it’s very intense. - I’m am a yapper!! (be warned) I prefer lots of communication but I am realistic about it. I like to bug people throughout the day with questions, memes, music, voice notes etc. Just little things to let you know i’m thinking about you. I enjoy long deep conversations as well as superficial stuff. Despite my yapping I’m actually kinda introverted in person. So don’t worry i’m not as intense all the time 😅. - I love to laugh and generally be a silly goose. I’m a very curious person, I love to learn from people and their perspectives. I enjoy being self aware and introspective. I definitely overthink a lot which can be a bit annoying but I just know it will come in handy one day 🤓. - In my spare time I love to read and to listen to audiobooks and podcasts. I love to go for bike rides and long walks in nature. I enjoy cooking and baking.
- Three years sober by choice and honestly don’t mind if you smoke/drink etc. - My attachment style can be a little bit anxious but it’s something i’m working on but it is triggered by avoidance, please don’t be avoidant (unless you’re actively working on it too). - Neurospicy and I have some sensory issues with physical touch but we can discuss this in more detail later.

Looking for: - Ages 28 - 45 - Open to varying time zones if they’re closish to PST.
- Someone who has the time, energy and enthusiasm for developing a connection and is consistent with this. - Please be self aware and take care of yourself both mentally and physically. I work really hard on myself, i’m always growing and learning and am looking for like minded people to experience this with. - This is just a bonus but someone who is experienced in BDSM and looking for a long term D/s dynamic. I used to be a switch but now i’m very much sub leaning. Kind of been out of the scene for a while so looking for someone who’s patient easing me back in. If you like roleplaying to just -chefs kiss-

Anyway! I think i’ve rambled enough so hopefully speak sooooon! 🖤🦇🖤