Hello all! I’m looking for a person - or couple - to connect with. A little about me: I’m 35 and married, we date separately. I have a full time 9-5 job plus a side-project, but thankfully I get to set the deadlines and workload on that second one, so I can carve out time when I want to :) I’m into music (I have an eclectic taste that spans many genres), sci-fi (currently watching several shows at once - Three Body Animation (it's terrible), Fringe, rewatching the X-Files, etc), gaming (when I have time), cybersecurity, I’m just sort of an all-around nerd. Bit of anime (not in a long while but I'm slowly getting back into it, I just watched the first episode of Attack on Titan), tinkerer (mostly with computers), etc. I have two cats and a ball python. Politically I’m left of center (by American standards, so centrist by global standards I think?). I’m 5’ 10” and currently 210 lbs. I want to lose more weight still though I have plateaued. Bald, short beard, glasses, and tattoos. I'm willing to share pictures in DMs.

As for what I’m looking for, I'm pretty open. I would say "long term" but that doesn't have to mean "years" or "forever." Just see where it takes us. I'm looking for someone text throughout the day, have regular date nights, get to know each other, make some good memories, have fun, enjoy some interesting conversation, all that jazz. I seem to gravitate toward "witchy" types so if you're pagan, wiccan, or any sort of general goth/fringe type person, there's a really strong chance we'll hit it off. No idea why, that just seems to be the trend. I am a "kitchen table poly" type, so whenever the timing is right I'd like for you to meet my wife and I'd also like to meet your other partners just to kind of put faces to names and such. Physically speaking, I'm pretty flexible in terms of my "type." I like the term "heteroflexible" to describe my preference in appearance. I prefer feminine or andrygenous people appeareance-wise, but other than that I’m open to all body types, gender identities, ethnicities, religious beliefs (I'm agnostic, personally), etc. Sexually I also consider myself "kink-friendly." I'm not necessarily "kinky" but I'm open to a considerable number of kinks if that's your thing (and I'm a switch). And last but not least, I'm also open to being just friends if you're someone looking for a non-romantic, non-sexual relationship in the area, all I ask is that you be up front with me about your goals. Ideally I would prefer someone in the Austin area, but I may be open to an LDR for the right person/people (especially within Texas, outside of Texas we'll have to see).

That’s all I got. If I missed anything feel free to ask questions, I'm a pretty open book. I prefer Signal for messaging but of course we can start on Reddit at first. Hope to hear from some cool people!