Hi, I'm a stay-at-home dad/husband who is looking for someone interested in a smart, guy who's good at being focused on the people he cares about. I'm not really good at anything else, per se, but it's not to say I'm not useful. It's just kind of my hobby to research and understand things that other's are interested in. It may be that I'm terrible at it (like learning languages) or pretty good at it (like most subjects ending in -stry -ics or -logy). I like reading books and manga and kind of want to get into cooperative writing roleplays, but have no idea how to do that.
As far as what I'm looking for goes, I do pretty well with people who tend to be a bit unstable in the mindspace; either hyper-active where there's always something going on or a feeling that they don't have a strong connection to themselves or the ground. Not sure why that is, but I'm pretty calm and generally don't take anything too seriously or personally, so maybe that's it? Or the fact that I focus on the other person and don't really let anything else distract me while I'm doing so.
I'm 6'1 and generally do well with people who are shorter than me, though it's rare to meet women who are taller than me. Either way, not much of a requirement. I don't care about body size or background, but I like people who are clingy and needy. I'm good at giving attention to those I'm bound to, but not great if there's no communication of what's needed (even if it's "I don't know" 'cause I'm pretty good at figuring things out).
Age wise, I'd really like someone 28 , and closer to my age the better. I agree with the notion that age is just a number, not a personality trait, but past a decade seems like it carries a lot of questionable connotations that I'm simply not interested in.

Finally, send me a message or chat and I'll get back to you. I talk pretty much the same in a chat as I do here, but I'm a bit reserved. So if you don't like dumping your crazy onto me, I'm probably going to seem pretty boring and standoffish. Like I said, I'm into people who are more obsessive and impulsive since I'm pretty good at balancing that kind of energy with my calmness and benevolent demeanor.