Decided to do one last post while still in NC as this coming May(2025) I’m planning to move out West to Oregon (close to portland). I wanted to give any NC people one more chance to see my posts as NC holds a special place in my heart, being raised here near my whole life. So Maybe youre local to the greater Charlotte area and we can make a connection now, or perhaps you’re living out west in the PDX already and think we may vibe when I make it there. With that context out of the way, enjoy the post!

About my body -> 27 year old TransWoman, 5’5”, 215Ibs. I have been on Hormone Replacement therapy for 9 years and feel like I pass very easily, so long as I keep up my beauty routines. I have’t had top surgery but certainly don’t need it at this point. As for bottom surgery, I would like to have that one day, but money is a huge factor. If you wanna pay for my surgery please message me lmao. Im have a mixed heritage: Dad’s side is Russian/Germanic Jews and my Mom’s is Native Central Americans “mixed” with the Spanish Colonials. At the end of the day I look like a slightly more olive toned white person. I am a bit thicc and have a belly but also have a fair amount of strength. Im not frail or sedentary by anymeans. I’m Panromantic, demisexual, and polyamorous; I currently have 2 romantic partners: my wife/nesting partner and my girlfriend in Raleigh. I practice ENM or Kitchen-Table Poly, meaning I date any/all partners separately, without the expectation for you to become a “third” or something like that. Also all partners know about each other; there are no secrets. The idea is that the entire polycule could have dinner around the kitchen table together, even if everyone isnt dating everyone. You having strong communication skills would be extremely important as this style of poly doesn’t work without honest and continual communication.

What Im looking for is connections (platonic or romantic) above all else. I have a phrase I like to use: “Hearts, not parts.” If we end up vibing we vibe. As for preferences, people who identify as alternative, punk, or queer tend to be who I am attracted to.

I will say I am dating two woman currently, so a more masculine energy in my life would be appreciated. Whether youre a Transman, Masc leaning Enby, Butch lesbian, or even one of the few good cis dudes, all are welcome. While I may be wanting something more masculine in my life I am of course open to all, so if youre a femme or something else entirely thats okay too.

Some more info about me and my interests, since people find that kinda stuff important on personal ads. I used to be more phsycially active, partaking in parkour, performance art, and breakdancing. Ive transitioned to playing more video games as my energy and time became a massive constraint while I was finishing school. Havent quite found my drive again after finishing school, and burnout is all too real. Some of my fave franchises are Legend of Zelda(TotK was so hype), Dishonored, Darksiders, and Pokemon. I also have been playing alot of DnD the past few years, as well as other TTRPGS(Vampire The Masquerade). I’m always down for anime, cartoons, horror, or sci-shows so if you like that kinda stuff too, awesome! I have fallen out of my hyperfixation on the Yugioh Card game, but rest assured it will be back in several years when I least expect it. I’m a meme queen for certain, filled with absurdist and sarcastic humor. Lastly my music tatses are all over the place but I really like Jazzhop/Lofi and 90’s Alternative(the angstier the better).

If you made it this far I hope to hear from you. Shoot me a DM about yourself. Also tell me what your favorite fast food “guilty pleasure” is, just cause.