Hi, the name's Ridley! I'm a 30 year old transmasc non-binary bi guy. My pronouns are he/they. I'm from the US, but I live in Germany. Long distance is totally fine. I tend to be online at weird hours anyway, so different time zones aren't too much of a problem. I'm poly, and I currently have one partner. I'm looking to build long-term relationships, whether they be romantic, platonic, good friends who flirt or FWBs. Anything more than platanic friendship would need to be with other queer people as there is no straight thing about me.

I'm neurodivergent. I'm autistic, and I have ADHD. I'm a leftist. I've been out as trans for about five years. I'm not on T yet, but I'm taking the first step to get it in just a few weeks. I'm only 5'1, so you're probably taller than me. I'm Pagan and ex-Christian. I'm disabled, and I use different mobility aides depending on the day or situation. I don't have to use mobility aides at home generally or walking short distances. I have multiple chronic illnesses, feel free to ask about them or ask anything else. I'm an open book.

I love books, and I'm finally getting back into reading. I'm into gaming, and I play a lot of different genres of games. I play on Switch, Steam Deck, Xbox One and 3DS. I'm mostly a solo gamer, but I'm open to gaming with others once I'm comfortable with them. I enjoy creating art even though I'm not very good anymore. I love cooking, and I'm pretty decent at it. I have lots of plushies. My special interest is aquatic life. I will infodump on the topic occasionally. I'm really into worldbuilding, roleplaying and writing. I want to learn how to crochet, but I keep putting it off. I tend to collect hobbies, so I'd be very interesting in hearing all about yours.

For potential romantic and spicy connections, I'm a bottom and mostly submissive. I definitely have my bratty moods though. I'm pretty kinky also.

Hope you're having a wonderful day, and I hope to hear from you soon!